hopekenzierj
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« on: April 07, 2008, 08:02:34 PM » |
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how is it liveing with someone with bipolar cause the way others describe it, it sounds like hell on earth? I mean we aren't evil and another thing why would you stay if we are that by? Thanks
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people lose sight of who they are everyday so try to be more like yourself everyday that way you never lose who you are.
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« Reply #1 on: April 07, 2008, 09:22:39 PM » |
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I would like to know the honest truth to that myself. I've asked my husband, but all he offers me are loving thoughts, smiles, and kisses. Not that I'm ungrateful...I'm very thankful to have him, but would also love to know the truth.
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« Reply #2 on: April 07, 2008, 09:39:57 PM » |
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yes me too cause mine just says how moody I am or how he has to walk on eggshells around me.
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« Reply #3 on: April 07, 2008, 09:46:51 PM » |
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mine used to be like that...when the world came crashing in on us though, things changed. He had to take care of me and the kids and all that comes with that. He had no idea how to do the "mommy lanes" at school and he had no idea what size clothes the kids wore or even what day the power bill was due, and now he had to come up with 6 social security cards and 6 birth certificates and learn all about my disorder and go to the doc with me and give me my meds (pick them up at the pharmacy). Deal with all the insurance crap, ball practices, and take tampons to school when the girls left them at home...That's what changed life around here. He had no idea what I dealt with everyday + my illness + a full time job...Just take him to the psychiatrist with you and I think you may see a change in him. Education about the illness is really the most helpful thing I've found.
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« Reply #4 on: April 07, 2008, 09:51:24 PM » |
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that's the thing I have printed put info for him and read it to him but when I get upset be says very sarcasticly ur doing a great job. I am like kiss my ads and ur doing a great job u know. He couldn't survive a week being a momma.
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« Reply #5 on: April 07, 2008, 09:55:12 PM » |
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He's just lucky that he hasn't had to. I used to say the same about my husband, but he learned the ropes very quick (and he's not very intelligent) and has done enough to keep us alive...The house sure is dirty though. Southern men are difficult, especially if they're set in with their family and their ways.
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« Reply #6 on: April 07, 2008, 09:59:23 PM » |
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girly how well I know. My hubby comes from money and upper crust and I was raised in the project and my mom was a drug addict my whole life so you ain't gotta tell me about men being set in there ways
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« Reply #7 on: April 08, 2008, 05:49:04 AM » |
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I was wondering this very same thing yesterday. I have done so many bad things (at least I think so) to my husband and family I dunno why they still love me. I guess the operative word here is "Love". Love is unconditional. Maybe that is why.
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« Reply #8 on: April 08, 2008, 11:21:10 AM » |
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They do love us that is why they put up with us but when we have our good days we must be some kick ass people cause we are so lovable and irrisitable to be around.
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« Reply #9 on: April 08, 2008, 03:01:26 PM » |
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don't forget interesting!  Never a dull moment around us! LOL |
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« Reply #10 on: April 11, 2008, 07:08:45 AM » |
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not that i have a husband anymore (woohoo thank fuck for that) but your arent dull or boring or predictable like so many couples get in a marraige...and the big word as phyllis said LOVE LOVE LOVE........makes us do the stupidest of things and can give an inner strenght to deal with whats thrown at us.....so consider yourselves very priveledged,lucky and pretty damn amazing women to have a man love you all that much xxx
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bound and tied in emotion but still we fly.losing all my reason cause theres nothing left to blame.
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« Reply #11 on: April 11, 2008, 07:48:11 AM » |
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As a friend of mine is fond of saying: "Crazy women are better in bed."
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« Reply #12 on: April 11, 2008, 07:52:45 AM » |
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love your friends remark to crazy women...hahaha
my ex boyfriend (he has problems of his own!)says that he had never met someone as imaginative and able to keep up before....so there could be something in your friends comment...hahaha
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bound and tied in emotion but still we fly.losing all my reason cause theres nothing left to blame.
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« Reply #13 on: April 11, 2008, 02:19:27 PM » |
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 Crazy women MAY be better in bed, but I always followed the old counterculture proverb; Never sleep with anybody who is crazier than you are!
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Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the law---Love is the law, love under will.
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« Reply #14 on: April 11, 2008, 02:57:13 PM » |
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Clayton,
I can honestly say that has never happened to me, I have always been the crazy one. LOL
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